So, to answer the comment left by the "anonymous" person. First you have no right to say anything because you have no idea what I went through. There is a reason I am divorced. I don't have to share because those that really know me know why and even my pastor told me to get out.
As far as Ryan goes, he is out of my life. That's that. We haven't talked since I lost a lot of blood. He only cared that I didn't lose Izzy, or maybe he wanted me to? Yes, I am writing a book, I still am. just because we broke up doesn't mean I won't finish the story. And it's not all about sex. That's really shallow.
And I have a right to date before Izzy is 18. That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard! LOL! I don't need to justify that, and God does NOT expect us to go through life alone without someone to share it with and to raise the kids.
And lastly, to say to put school on the bottom and not worry about getting an education, obviously the person that wrote a comment doesn't value education. Also you need one to get anywhere now days. I have a right to finish mine so that I can give my children a good life and provide for them. So one can only think that this person is either uneducated or doesn't understand that raising 3 kids on your own is not any easy thing.
As far as my relationship with God, no one can judge that. I know who I am in Christ and that is all that matters. I know that God is there for us. I also do know that God has a special man just for me and the children! So to say forget it all, is absurd!
So, before you think or write something know you have no idea about what I've gone through or are going through. Yes, I was given a low chance of living, but God will work it out and if I am to pass, then it was God's will!
I must go!
Bri
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You are so right! I have not idea what you have been through or what happened in your marriage. I only know what I have read on this blog. I am just confused about how a pastor tells you to get a divorce. I may be ignorant, but doesn't the bible speak against divorce? Regardless, you have your reasons and I am not judging you for what you did, but I am feeling that you made a decision for yourself that your kids be impacted by.
About the book...in previous blogs, you spoke about how you were going to be truthful about intimate details...and you went on and on. I am not sure how many people I know want to read a book about someone else's love life, especially a mom's love life.
I agree that God does not expect you to go through life alone. But, you now have 3 kids and you cannot bring guys in and out of your life. You went on and on about how hurt your kids were because Ryan left. You were the one that caused this, not Ryan. You should protect your kids from getting close with the guys you date so that they do not get hurt. This is not rocket science, just put your kids before your sexual needs. Remember, you are not going through life alone because you have 3 kids. When they are all grown up you can date away...because it will not influence or hurt them--like the whole Ryan thing. I am not saying you can't date, but I am saying that it would be in the best interest of the kids if you chose not to date.
School??? I value education more than you know, but I also know that you are talking about finishing medical school. If you have not even received a bachelors degree, then you still have medical school, residency, etc. How do you plan on doing this with 3 kids. I have plenty of friends who are doctors and they barely could stay awake during school and residency...and you plan on finishing with 3 kids. All I am saying, is you may want to think about a career change for the best interest of your children.
Lastly, I never judged you. How could I? From your blog? That makes me LOL! But, you are sharing everything and its clear that your relationships, actions, and the fruit from your life do not match up with what you say. Some people judge and others just call it like it is...I am one of the others.
Notice the theme of putting your kids before yourself. You seem to be bright, yet you seem to only focus on yourself.
Since this is my last comment to you. I wish you the best and may you and your children receive all of the Lord's richest blessings.
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